2 Nov 08 . Girls? Ego?
you are still who you are.
Thinking about yourself & never realise your mistake.
Even if you do realise, all you can say was a fake apologize.
You think she was fine when deep inside her, she's not.
Twisting your words to make it complicated,
sorry girl, you are playing games with the wrong person.
We are not fine. We are not satisfied.
You wanna play games like this? Game on, girl.
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One thing I hate most was EGO. The three letter word with a strong meaning. I'm fine with 'guys ego' (Ha ha. That's like SOOO normal) but girls? Ego? Does not match at all! What girls match with are, apologizing, shopping, movie treats, slumber party, saying I U when communicate (ahhh.. I just thought of stating, SPA, BEAUTY THERAPY.. LOL!!) etc.
Well, try putting guys in one of the example. Like, saying I U when communicate. When girls communicate I U with another girl, that's like sooo normal. But GUYS? Saying I U? Ok.. Let's take a short scene here.
**A guy walking towards Shopping mall when suddenly HE bumped into his long lost friend**
His friend : SHAM!! Eh!!! Kenal aku tak?! Kawan lama kau lah dulu main goli sama-sama!
HIM : SHAM?! Mampos! You dah lain eh sekarang.
His friend : Ermm.Ermm.. Kau keje mane skrg?
HIM : Oh! I keje dekat Orchard. Office lah. Abeh you?
His friend : Aku lom dapat keje lagi lah.. OK lah. Aku jalan dulu.. *salam*
HIM : Alright! See you.
LOL LOL. Obviously his friend MIGHT think that HE is a gay right? Come on lah, what's on the guys mind when their friend talk to them I U? LEMBUT. That's the thing! Guys saying I U is totally a wrong match!
If you want, you can try change His friend to Her friend & HIM to HER. Realise. There's a big difference to it.
Let's just straight to the point. Girls having sooo much Ego (Ego killer. Has ego higher than the guys) in herself is OBVIOUSLY, there's something WRONG with that girl.
It's either she:
- Never once saying sorry to someone in her own life
- Paisey
- Tak kene gaya
- Thought what past is past.
- Doesn't give a thought to other people feeling
- NEED to stand for her right eventho' she's at wrong
- Tak mengaku kalah
- AND MAYBE YOU WANNA TELL ME MORE? I'M BLANK.
So, for Egoistic girls out there, it's not like you are not eligible to be part of the NON-Egoistic girls. But if you try to soften your heart, give a thought to other people's feeling and BE LIKE A GIRL, people won't look down on you & say, "This girl has too much Ego. I can't take it anymore. I've been patience with her too much & I'm sick of being hurt. EVEN an apology is too 'priceless' for her to say"
DEFINE EGO:
ego and super-ego are functions of the mind rather than parts of the brain and do not necessarily correspond one-to-one with actual somatic structures of the kind dealt with by neuroscience. - Wikipedia
Good luck girls who are enduring girlfriend(s) who has so much Ego. All you need is patience, babe. But, if you think it's OVER-LIMIT already, go out and confronted her nicely. Even if talking to her NICELY doesn't help, then, ignore her. YOU need to take care of your heart too. You can't just let your heart being hurt bit by bit by her Ego right?
Let's just wait...